Ever expected something from someone ? What happened ? They didn’t meet your expectations ? uh-oh ! Are you hurt ? Don’t sit and cry now. Yes ! it’s the sad reality of life.
Expectations leads to disappointments especially when you are in a relation with someone. You might be unworthy to someone but you are priceless to another. Never forget your worth. Spend time with people who value you and who accepts you the way you are.
No matter how good you are to the people, some people will still criticize you.Just smile at them and move on. The biggest battle in today’s world is to be yourself. Not everybody will like you but the right people will. Never beg anybody for love,respect and attention. Look at yourself in the mirror and say “I love you”. It’s important to be nice to others but it’s more important to love yourself first. Self love and self respect are some of the main sources of happiness and when you are happy you become a better YOU.You are not in this world to live up-to expectations of others and you shouldn’t think that others are here to live up-to yours. The main culprit is our brain and our thoughts. Stop expecting that other people know what you are thinking. The fact is that people can’t read minds and won’t know what you are thinking until you tell them.That cute guy/girl you see daily at the bus stop won’t know u love him/her until u speak out. Why are you creating imaginary situations in your brain and hurting yourself ? I will tell you what’s the worst thing that will happen ? He/she will reject you. According to me that’s the best thing for you. At least you will stop expecting. Stop expecting people to change. Everybody is different in this world.You either accept them the way they are or choose to live without them. Now try to refocus on things that truly matter to you !
“Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.”
― Alexander Pope